Your Inner Game

Is your inner game sabotaging your growth?


Are you secretly feeling lost, trapped on a never-ending merry-go-round, desperately trying to carve out financial freedom in the hairdressing business?
You work tirelessly, put in the hours, and follow what you believe to be the right path, yet success seems elusive.

Took me the first 20 years of my hairdressing journey to work this out!

Something is holding you back, and you can't quite put your finger on it. Is your mind playing tricks on you, distorting reality into a blur of doubts and uncertainties?

Your Inner Game

Perhaps it's time to ask yourself the fundamental questions – What is my problem? What's my actual problem?

In a world where the hairdressing industry is as unpredictable as ever, you find yourself at the centre of this ever-evolving storm. The challenges are relentless – the struggle to find reliable staff, the heartbreak of apprentices leaving the industry, and the frustration of meagre wages. It's a challenging, service-based arena where change is the only constant, and you, my friend, are the alchemist.

Picture yourself as the alchemist, weaving a seemingly magical process of transformation. You combine the raw elements of skill, creativity, and determination into something entirely new. It's not just about cutting hair; it's about sculpting confidence, enhancing self-esteem, and crafting beauty. 

You hold the power to make people feel their best, to boost their self-worth, and to create lasting impressions.

But here's the catch – the alchemy that occurs within you isn't just about your technical expertise; it begins with your inner game. It's about the thoughts that swirl in your mind, the beliefs you hold about yourself, and the way you navigate the challenges that come your way.

Now, let's get real for a moment. You might be thinking, "I've been in this industry for years, and I've honed my craft. But why does success seem to slip through my fingers? Why do I still struggle to break free from the daily grind?" Those thoughts are entirely valid. It's natural to question your path when the road ahead seems foggy, and the doubts keep piling up.

You're not alone in these thoughts. Many women hairdressers aged 40 and above face the same internal battles. You're working tirelessly, pouring your heart and soul into your business, and yet, the financial freedom you crave remains just out of reach. The frustration builds as you ponder, "Why can't I succeed? What's missing?"


The truth is that something is holding you back, but it's not a lack of skill or dedication. Your inner game – that intricate dance of thoughts, beliefs, and emotions- determines how you approach challenges and opportunities. It's the lens through which you view your business, clients, and, most importantly, yourself.

But fear not because there's hope on the horizon. In the following pages, we'll explore the depths of your inner game, uncovering the hidden barriers that have been silently sabotaging your growth. We'll dissect the thoughts that have held you captive, examine the beliefs that have limited your potential, and equip you with the tools to break free from the cycle that's been keeping you stuck.

I promise you this: by the time you finish reading, you'll have a newfound understanding of the power of your inner game and be armed with strategies to transform it into your greatest asset.
So, let's embark on this journey together. It's time to unravel the mysteries of your mind, confront your inner demons, and step into a future where success is not just a dream but a tangible reality.

Are you ready to dive in?

Let's begin.

Helene Mearing

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